Good to Know when Visiting Bali – Customs and Manners
Bali – Hindu Culture
Beliefs, values, and rituals that have been practiced for generations are what make up Indonesian tradition. Indonesia, however, is not merely a collection of islands; rather, it is a massive archipelago home to thousands of islands and more than 300 distinct ethnic groups. There are more than 700 living languages spoken there, and while there are some commonalities in how Indonesians interact with one another, many of the individual islands also have their own traditions. Even Bali can’t escape this rule. The majority of Bali’s residents are Hindu, so the island’s culture and way of life are quite different from its Muslim neighbors.
The traditions of Bali have many interesting and unique aspects, and a tourist who respects the local culture by adhering to a few of its rules will quickly earn the affection and esteem of Balinese people. Additionally, the Balinese will welcome you with open arms if you can speak even the tiniest bit of Indonesian. A few kind words will go a long way. Here is a quick rundown of a few traditions that will help you in your interactions with the Balinese and deepen your understanding of their culture.
One shouldn’t point the finger at another because it’s considered rude. Also, standing akimbo gives the impression of being ready for a fight or shows aggression. If you want to call out to someone using your hand, remember to have your fingers downward.
As a foreigner, you may be surprised to see that people here may not queue up in the lines or allow pedestrians to cross the road either, or give you the right of way in traffic. They don’t consider it rude or offensive because it’s just the way things are done around here.
This flagrant disregard for punctuality frustrates both tourists and foreign residents. Jam Karet (Rubber Time) represents this carefree approach to time. When someone is late for an appointment and, in the rare case, feels compelled to explain why, bad traffic is frequently used as an excuse, whether true or not, and everyone nods and moves on. Jam Karet is ever-present, and in some ways, it’s just a part of life that can be quite relaxing if you’re not pressed for time or need to conduct business.
Before entering a home, you should take off your shoes. If you enter a government office wearing sandals, you might not be allowed in, although this happens rarely.
Indonesians and the Balinese, in particular, are incredibly friendly and will start with a conversation with a stranger after a few seconds. In the north and the less touristy areas, you could find yourself in an hour-long discussion followed by invitation for dinner.
Money and Poverty
Despite the fact that Bali is relatively wealthy in comparison to other Indonesian islands, most Balinese you will encounter, particularly shop attendants and hotel and restaurant employees, live very modest lives. The average wage among hundreds of thousands of hospitality workers is less than USD$200-300. Traveling to another country is just a dream, and some of them cannot even afford to visit their villages on other islands where they fled to find work. They frequently fail to recognize that many of the tourists who visit Bali are middle-class, rather than mega rich. It’s just a perception formed by a lack of knowledge and experience.
But when a visitor pays per night for a hotel more than what they make in a month, it explains their perception. Therefore it is a nice gesture, when visitors don’t necessarily show off, or waste, or handle big amounts of money openly. Being modest and humble shows respect to the people who live and work in a developing country where low wages are standard, and the social welfare system is barely existing. Therefore any visitor is still regarded as rich, very rich, and to serve
Nudity & dress-code:
Even though you might find people bathing nude in a river in Bali, you’re well advised to wear a swimsuit at the beach. Topless is not allowed in Bali, even if Bali is probably the most open society in Indonesia when it comes to dress-codes.
Many young people and even older men run around shirtless in the streets, go shopping, or visit bars and restaurants, especially in Kuta. It’s one of the liberties they have here that they don’t have at home. However, even though Balinese rarely complain, it is considered impolite, and they will laugh at you. When leaving the beach or pool, we recommend that you wear at least a tank top.
Balinese girls often wear shorts and clothes that are regarded as “sexy”. Bali is probably the only island in Indonesia, where Indonesians can feel the most free when it comes to dress-code.
The Indonesians may well be “physical” during social interaction, but there are a few things to know. According to them, the body is both pure and impure depending on the area. It defines a particular set of manners. The head is the most sacred body part as it contains the door of Siva or the Fontanel through which the soul enters the body. It would be best if you do not touch the head of a Balinese.
Except for lovers holding hands, which the Balinese do openly, romantic gestures or emotions are rarely displayed in public. This, however, is not done in most parts of Indonesia or in villages. Lovers do not kiss in public, and visitors should respect the Balinese’ aversion to such intimate gestures. The “natural” part of the body is the midsection. So it was customary for women to be topless, as is still depicted in art today. Balinese women, however, were forced to wear bras and cover their bare chest due to national pressures.
From the navel downwards, the body is said to be impure. So, to show something using one’s feet is, for example, regarded as an insult.
The left hand is regarded as “dirty”. Usually, people give and receive either with the right hand or with both hands, while the left hand is kept slightly behind the right hand, without touching the other person.